14 April 2026
My favourite breath for early labour
By Suzie Peissel
Quick answer
Early labour is the longest phase of birth and how you spend it shapes everything that follows. The single most useful thing you can do is practice a handful of breathing patterns until they feel automatic. Heres one that actually works in the moment.
Calm breathing
Inhale through your nose for 4 counts. Exhale through your mouth for 8 counts. Ride each contraction on this pattern or use between contractions to maintain that sense of calm. The long exhale is doing the heavy lifting — it keeps oxygen flowing to your baby and keeps your body relaxed rather than braced.
How to practice this before the big day
Use it every night before sleep for a week until it feels effortless. Whenever you start to feel stressed or anxious about anything, either pregnancy related or just day to day life, just three of these breaths can ground you back in the moment. By 36 weeks you should have muscle memory of this breath. On the day, your body will reach for it automatically. If you want the full toolkit, the Group Hypnobirthing Course covers more breathing techniques plus visualisation and mindset work; the free breathing guide on the Resources page is a good starter.
FAQ
Common questions
When should I start practising?
From about 20 weeks onwards is ideal. The earlier you start, the more automatic the patterns become by the time you are in labour.
What if I forget the technique in labour?
Partners are trained to remind you, and one of the most useful things a birth partner does is simply breathe with you. Even one technique, used consistently, makes a noticeable difference.